Jody Dallaire

Jody Dallaire lives and works in Dieppe New Brunswick where she writes a weekly column on women's equality issues and matters of social justice. Email: jody.dallaire@rogers.com.

May 222012
 

Politics can be a noble profession once again.

by Jody Dallaire, Dieppe Advisory Committee on Equal Opportunity between Women and Men

[Editor's note: On May 13, municipalities, rural communities and school boards across New Brunswick held elections. SGN correspondent Jody Dallaire was re-elected as a Councillor at Large in Dieppe.]

Recently the Manning Centre for Building Democracy, a right-wing political think tank, conducted a poll asking Canadians what they think of politicians. Results showed that public respect for politicians continues to plummet. A majority of Canadians consistently responded negatively — 52 percent said politicians are lazy, 58 percent said they are unprincipled, 59 percent said they are incompetent, 69 percent said they are dishonest, 77 said they are untruthful, and 90 percent said they are more concerned about money than about people.

These results are similar to the results from a poll conducted by polling firm Angus Reid in 2008.

The late comedian Groucho Marx once described politics as: " the art of looking for trouble, finding it everywhere, diagnosing it incorrectly, and applying the wrong remedies."

 

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May 142012
 

Gender analysis leads to better budget decisions.

by Jody Dallaire, Dieppe Advisory Committee on Equal Opportunity between Women and Men

This column used to be written by the New Brunswick Advisory Council on the Status of Women, until the New Brunswick government decided to abolish the Council's funding on March 31, 2011. The decision — made without any public consultation whatsoever — was announced a year ago in the 2011-2012 provincial budget.

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May 082012
 

Video evokes the best in people.

 

by Jody Dallaire, Dieppe Advisory Committee on Equal Opportunity between Women and Men

Recently, the community news website Miramichi Online went around asking, "What is the most generous thing that someone has ever done for you?" Then the site produced a charming 10-minute video called: "50 people, One question".

Cameras are rolling when people hear the question that they are invited to answer. It is fascinating to see them react live. An incredible number cannot think of something on the spot, but probably continued thinking about the question as they left and when they woke up in the middle of the night.

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Apr 222012
 

Domestic killings deserve as much thought as honour killings.

by Jody Dallaire, Dieppe Advisory Committee on Equal Opportunity between Women and Men

We should spend as much time discussing spousal homicides and murder suicides as we do "honour killings." Maybe then we would get a handle on all this violence against women in New Brunswick.

There have been so many women killed by their partners in the last few years in this province that it is a wonder such news still makes headlines. Femicide is so ordinary — especially those spousal murder-suicides that are only in the news for a couple of days. They stop making headlines because the case is solved.

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Apr 042012
 

Abusers expect victims will not be believed.

by Jody Dallaire, Dieppe Advisory Committee on Equal Opportunity between Women and Men

Male on male sexual abuse has been in the news lately, with Graham James' sentence, the moving Cap Pelé acknowledgment of sexual abuse done to many men there when they were children, and the compensation paid to childhood victims of clergy in the Diocese of Bathurst. Notably, some of the men who had been abused came out publicly, giving their names and rejecting the shame that is supposed to be associated with sexual abuse victims.

The communities involved (and the media) have been wonderfully supportive of the victims, who spoke out as grown men. This respectful approach helps more than those men and their families. The change in attitudes and reactions helps all victims of sexual assault when they ask for help.

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Mar 272012
 

Let's ask what we don't know about sexual assault rates.

by Jody Dallaire, Dieppe Advisory Committee on Equal Opportunity between Women and Men

Maclean's magazine has an annual survey called "Canada's most dangerous cities." Once you start something like that, the news that Canada is basically a safe place really won't play. If crime rates actually decline — as they have been — well, then I guess that you just make the best of it by reporting the worst cases.

What I want to raise today — apart from the irrelevance of that once-great magazine — is Maclean's recent report that, according to official statistics, Saint John is the city with the highest rate of reported sexual assaults in Canada. Again.

Fredericton was not far behind, with the third highest rate of sexual assaults reported in Canada. Caledon, Ontario had the lowest rate of reported sexual assaults. (Sexual assault numbers include male, female, child and adult victims).

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Mar 202012
 

Draconian Internet Bill takes pratfall in the House.

by Jody Dallaire, Dieppe Advisory Committee on Equal Opportunity between Women and Men

At first I thought that the "Harper government" (as it wants to be called, rather than "the Canadian government") was being inconsistent, had made a faux pas even, with the internet snooping bill. I mean think about it.

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Mar 132012
 

One year later, Women's Advisory Council still sorely missed.

by Jody Dallaire, Dieppe Advisory Committee on Equal Opportunity between Women and Men

Last year at this time, the provincial government was officially marking International Women's Day with sponsored events and media releases reminding us that "there is still a great deal to be achieved" towards the equality of the sexes. It said it hoped that women's day would "motivate to continue to strive for equality".

Unofficially, the government had likely already decided to abolish its independent body that worked for gender equality. Later that month, David Alward would announce he was reneging on a promise in his platform and, instead of "actively engaging" with the Advisory Council on the Status of Women — as the platform said — he would abolish it.

The Advisory Council, which had been created by another Progressive Conservative government, was the only independent voice for women's concerns in the government and was doing valued work — as the reaction to his decision would soon attest. Among the many manifestations of that shock that were seen in the days and months following the Council's abolition, many remember the photos of large numbers of mostly young women with tape over their mouths on which "Alward" was written.

Since then, the government has at times seemed to regret the day it made that decision. But it also has had it easier because the Advisory Council is not around. That was why the Council was abolished — not to save the couple of hundred thousand dollars, as was suggested.

The Advisory Council researched and raised issues that were not on the government's agenda. It commented publicly when no one in the government would — and still won't — on how issues affect women. It informed women and groups, and anyone else listening, on the status of equality in the province.

What might the Advisory Council have done in the past year if they had been in place? In other words, what have we missed? What did the government dodge?

Had the Advisory Council been around in the last year, we likely would have in hand better information with which to receive and analyze the upcoming provincial budget. The Advisory Council had made substantial contributions to understanding budgets from an equality point of view.

The Council promoted critical thinking among feminists and community groups, advising them to follow the money, so that governments cannot say one thing and spend on another. In other words, tell me what you spend on and I'll tell you what your priorities are. Nobody has stepped up to the plate to play that role since the abolishment of the Advisory Council.

The Advisory Council compiled a Status Report of statistics on women and men in the province which showed, among other things, where inequalities still existed or were still being tolerated. It had commissioned or supported studieson what a tax reform would mean for equality, for women, female headed families and ordinary citizens. It broadcast and supported groups and individuals who were researching or asking questions about the budget.

Were the Advisory Council still around, we would have had in the last year dozens and dozens of public sessions in every region of New Brunswick on subjects of interests to women and on issues of fairness and equality. The Advisory Council reached thousands of New Brunswickers every year with their very popular and unusual series of mostly Lunch and Learns.

I remember some of the topics at Lunch and Learn sessions that the Advisory Council offered. Many of them I attended. Others, I listened to on the audio recordings which they made available on their internet site. Subjects included How is the child care system working for you? Running for City Hall 101. Sex Matters!: Why Analysis Must Include Gender. Sex and Taxes in New Brunswick. Women, Poverty and the Recession. Are We There Yet? Child Care Spending as Economic Stimulus. Promoting Social Justice for Rural New Brunswick.

At one of its last public sessions on the impact of the government`s tax cutting agenda, with economists Jean-Philippe Bourgeois and Joe Ruggeri, the Council distributed (as was its habit) a suggested action sheet with suggestions for citizens who might be interested in following up on the issue discussed, complete with email addresses, media contacts and lists for further readings. You can bet this was not welcome everywhere.

Were the Advisory Council still around, it would likely have spoken about the number of domestic violence related murder suicides and femicide in this province lately. Without them around, we hear about the services available for surviving victims of wife abuse — but no one is saying, like the Advisory Council would say on this topic — we're wiping the floor but we're not shutting the tap.

Were the Advisory Council still around, it would likely have told us about the impact on women of successive government's irresponsible management of the minimum wage levels. The Council would have estimated the thousands of dollars that some of New Brunswick's hardest and lowest paid workers — those in child care centers, community homes, battered women's shelters and home support services — have lost and will never get because of successive government's slow motion on pay equity.

Some may think that the government has weathered citizens' wrath about the abolition of the Advisory Council on the Status of Women. The government has since taken little action to reduce gender inequalities, to work with the equality seeking community or allow for gender issues to be taken into account in public business.

However, the government knows, from its own surveys and from the continued reaction of the citizens it meets, that it did a mean and unnecessary thing when it abolished the Advisory Council and has lost some credibility as a result.

Jan 242012
 
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"Worst enemy" myths contradicted by logic, history.

by Jody Dallaire, Dieppe Advisory Committee on Equal Opportunity between Women and Men

This probably falls under pet peeves, but I need to say something about the sometimes-heard comment that "women are their own worst enemy." The worst kind of sexism is that which is presented as something else.

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